How to Dress for White Tie Events
White tie is the most formal dress code in the world, the pinnacle of elegance, tradition, and old-world glamour. You’ll see it at state dinners, royal events, high-profile galas, and certain charity balls. If you’ve been invited to a white tie event, consider it an honor… and also a fashion challenge. This is not your average “formal” dress code.
This guide breaks down everything you need to know to look polished, appropriate, and effortlessly refined at any white tie affair.
What Exactly Is White Tie?
White tie is stricter and more traditional than black tie. It comes with specific rules, silhouettes, and finishing touches that keep the look cohesive and elevated.
If black tie is glamorous, white tie is regal.
For Women: What to Wear
A Full-Length Evening Gown
This is non-negotiable. The gown should be floor-length, elegant, and made from luxurious fabrics like satin, silk, chiffon, or velvet.
Ideal silhouettes include:
A-line
Column
Mermaid
Ballgown
Off-the-shoulder or sleeveless designs
Avoid anything too revealing — the goal is sophistication and timeless glamour.
Opera-Length Gloves
These are optional, but highly traditional and incredibly chic.
Notes on gloves:
Usually white, ivory, black, or matching your gown
Only removed while dining
Add instant elegance and formality
Refined, Statement Jewelry
Choose luxurious but tasteful pieces.
Perfect options:
Pearls
Diamonds
Vintage-inspired pieces
Delicate drop earrings
Coordinated sets
Avoid oversized trendy jewelry — keep it classic.
Evening Heels
Choose closed-toe or elegant open-toe heels.
Think: satin, metallic, embellished, or classic pumps.
Comfort matters — you’ll be standing and walking a lot.
A Small, Polished Evening Bag
Clutches or minaudières are ideal.
Metallics, jewels, satin, or beaded styles pair beautifully.
Hair & Makeup: Elevated but Timeless
Chignons
Soft Hollywood waves
Sleek updos
Natural glam makeup
Red, nude, or soft pink lips
Everything should feel elegant and balanced.
For Men: What to Wear
Black Tailcoat + Matching Trousers
The backbone of white tie attire.
Tailcoat details:
Black, formal, with a cutaway front
Satin lapels
Trousers with two satin stripes on each leg
White Wing-Collar Shirt
Specifically designed for white tie.
Look for stiff fronts and bib detailing.
White Bow Tie
Hand-tied is preferred. The bow tie must be true white (not off-white).
White Waistcoat
Low-cut, typically piqué cotton.
The waistcoat must not peek below the tailcoat.
Black Patent Shoes
Highly polished oxfords or evening pumps.
Optional Finishing Touches
Cufflinks & studs
Pocket watch
Dress socks
Boutonnière (small, subtle, and fresh)
White Tie Etiquette Tips
Arrive on time — white tie events are structured.
Remove opera gloves when eating.
Keep handbags small and elegant.
Avoid overly trendy or flashy looks.
Prioritize elegance over sex appeal.
Grooming matters: clean nails, polished shoes, styled hair.
Modern White Tie: What’s Changed?
While tradition is the foundation, modern white tie is slightly more flexible. Women may see a bit more creativity in silhouettes, fabrics, and accessories. Men’s white tie remains almost identical to its classic version — a timeless uniform of formality.
Confidence Is Part of the Dress Code
White tie is special because it encourages you to step into a more polished, elegant version of yourself. The dress code is strict, but it’s also an experience, a chance to embrace glamour, history, and sophistication at the highest level.
